I've compiled a list of frequently asked questions to help make navigating and understanding policies a little easier for every one.
How can I help improve ABF Singles?
Send me your suggestions and feedback.
Let people know about ABF Singles.
Add a picture and fill out your profile.
Report suspected spammers and other degenerates.
Can I upload nude pictures?
No because our advertisers won't allow
it. If I can see nipples/areolas/penises I delete those automatically,
If I think you're pushing the boundaries too much I'll delete that too. I
understand some women want to show cleavage and I'm fine with that.
Please do so in a respectful manner. If I need to remove your picture a
couple of times I will just close your account.
Why do I see (edited by admin) all over the place?
You see that because the member has published personally identifiable information (hereafter, PII) somewhere on the site. So, no PII is allowed in the timelines, your profile or any other publicly accessible part of the site. If you see the “(edited by admin)” in your profile or timeline posts, blogs or any other part of the site you should consider yourself warned. Too many occurrences, and your account will be deactivated. PII includes anything that can identify yourself, email address, Kik/Snapchat/any other chat handle, phone number, street address.
How do I cancel my account?
Use the following menu options:
Settings>Privacy>Who Can View My Profile>Cancel Account.
How do I block another member?
If the other person is just annoying or not really your type you can view their profile and there is a 'Block Member' option in the bottom right of their profile. If they continue to harass you or send any type of threatening message. This is serious business, please use the report feature and keep any offending messages for further investigation. You have the right to be here without feeling harassed or intimidated. Please do not report people because they hurt your feelings or you disagree with them. Always use the block option first, if it continues then report it.
What happens when I reach my message limit (3 private messages per 24hrs)?
You will not be able to send/receive any more messages. You can fix this by either upgrading your account or deleting older messages.
Is my password secure?
Yes, it is encrypted and stored in our database. I cannot see your password, I can only reset it.
I don't want my picture to be displayed on the front page.
Check the box that says 'Mark picture to hide from main page.' when you upload your picture and it will not display on any of the 3 main carousel tabs.
Can I advertise my product, service or website?
Maybe, use the contact us form at the bottom of the page.
I'm online but people cannot see me on chat?
Click the little gear icon labeled 'Chat Settings' in the bottom right corner. Make sure Online is underlined and not invisible.
I was banned and I don't know why.
There are generally a few reasons why accounts are banned. Use the contact us at the bottom of the page and I'll try to give you a specific reason.
Creating multiple accounts.
Adding prohibited pictures.
Being rude or disrespectful
I cancelled my account but I would like to register again with the same email/username
I will only do this for people who upgrade to a gold account since it's time consuming to do. If you would like to do this, use the contact form at the bottom of the page. Please have proof of your old gold account.